The Atypical HouseWife

It really has been some time since I last made any entries here, but i have to really make more of effort to make some good use to this blogging thing !

Most time I do feel I really have nothing much to contribute here, but I have come to notice, anyone can blog just about Nothing or about anything and everything.
To me, as my blog name suggest, I should blog about being a wife, mother, about family.

Yes, my favorite recipes and cooking.

So I have decided to create a recipes sharing blogs and updates of my family, as the internet will be around for many, many many years to come. I am sure one day my two treasure will come to read of my blogs and i hope they will get an insight into their mom's day to day life around them.

In the last few days, I am not sure if I have been reaching old age, reached mid life or found myself about to start a new family lifestyle that I been thinking of the past. I do mean A LOT !

From the sweet high school years to the first guy I had a crush all those years ago to the last guy I decided to settle on life with. Off course the sweetest moments of my thoughts come from the memory that my children has created for me. From the time I found myself being pregnant with Isaac and finding myself a hopeless first time mum through to the journey of trying for my second child Samantha.

Then the thought of the good and hard time my marriage has been through.

Life really has been bittersweet to me.

But I must say, I have been handed a sweet candy of life most of the time.

I really can't ask for more in life then this.

Yes, there are the certain moments in life where I wish i could turn back and change a few things and handle a few issues differently but I think on the majority, I would not change much.

Yes, i might at time in the heat of the moment feel I have choose the wrong husband, but when I look at it if i did not choose him as a husband, I would not have children like mine right now, and THAT I would never change for anything in life.

The sweetest in my life is becoming a mother. I never thought I have ever a mother type. But it really does come naturally. Parenthood really is a miracle itself.

The bond created begins in the nine months they rely so dearly on a mother. That bond is irreplaceable. Yes it is not an easy nine months but after the birth, you once again miss and crave that bond between mother and child. A bond NO ONE can share. Once they make that grand entrance to my life, they have BECOME my life. I live for them. I survive for them now.

I would give up my life for the sake of their life. AND that is the miracle of a mother's love. NEVER ENDING.

Now that I am having more and more friends who as entering the magical moment in their life of being mothers themselves, It is great to be able experience it together.

I am not the ambitious, career orientated person. My career and priorities now lays with my husband and children. As bad and it may sound for a woman of the 21st century. I live to serve my family only.
Stay tune for my first official food/family sharing moments my friends