to love or not to love

Love..........it is a great word...........a word that has many meanings.

it is something you can't live without.

Love does not just restricted to the boy/girl love......... there is mother/child love....brother/sister love and friendship love

So EVERYONE has got some sort of love in their live ! there is no denying that fact. but it is what kind of love are we desiring for ???

As for me, i have been very, very fortunate enough that i have been entitle to all of the love there is.

boy/girl love. mother/child love. brother/sister love. Friendship love.

Even through there are times i wish to terminate some of the love between some of the relationship mentioned.

After experiencing all sort of love now, the most meaningful and closest to me is the mother/child love. At times went i am sitting there with Isaac and Samantha, i would give my life for their happiness and suffering anytime. When i come to think of it my love for my children at strong enough to the extend that not only am i willing to give up my life for them but if there was a time i must choose between my love for my husband and the kids.........i am sorry to say my love for the kids will overturn my love for my husband without a doubt ! that isn't to say Johnathan is not important. But motherhood is one special relationship that is hard to interpret to someone.

I CAN'T WAIT UNTIL my close friend Helen expereience this for herself!!

I remember a time back I would say i do not wish to have children....but i am glad i didn't stick by that comment, because there is not one day i can live without them.

As the time goes by and the years past by.......my family has become my everything to me. Johnathan, Isaac and Samantha has become my life.....they are what i survive for now !

But in the recent months, I have friends who have boy/girl love problem. Some I feel deserve better......some i think put the problem upon themselves ! So i think has both !!!!

BUT no matter what............yes, there is a stage of great sadness and then anger and then should come the recovery.......how long one takes to reach the recovery stage is up to their EQ ! But man, i sure have low EQ friends !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yes, V. I am talking about you !

I think it is time i pop around to your place and slap you awake !

After all those months you need to realise the facts and move on !! the future is forward not backwards.

The opposition has the right to move on and be happy themselves even thou it may be alot quicker then you, but that is becoz he has the capability to move the train running faster then you and you can't blame him for it either, but there is a time when that train of yours must start moving and since you see he has started his journey of life again, you should have started your engine as well and start running faster and quicker then him !

Love is a two way street..........it is a give and take. who is the giver and who is the taker, there is not definite answer to that.

In love and relationship, there is no right and wrong. either it works or it doesn't work ! you just have to play the game and know and if you lose you lose and move on and play your next game until you find one that is right for you !

So Yes, everyone needs love, but love does not restrict to one type of love only. Look at the other type of love you own and you will start to cherish your other loves. Don't neglect your love love and only focus on one type of love ! For a starter you should learn to cherish the love of friendship you have1 =)